Debunking Common Infertility Myths: Insights from Caperton Fertility Institute

Shakeeka Misher • July 26, 2024

Infertility is a sensitive and often misunderstood topic, surrounded by numerous myths and misconceptions. 

At Caperton Fertility Institute, we are committed to providing accurate information and compassionate care to help you navigate your fertility journey. In this blog, Shika Misher, a nurse practitioner at our El Paso office, addresses some of the most common infertility myths and sets the record straight.

Myth 1: Infertility is Exceedingly Rare
Fact: Infertility is more common than many people think. According to the National Institutes of Health, about one-third of infertility cases are due to female reproductive conditions, another third to male reproductive conditions, and the remaining third to a combination of both or unknown factors. Understanding this can help reduce the stigma and encourage more open discussions about fertility challenges.

Myth 2: I Must Try to Conceive for at Least One Year Before Seeking Help
Fact: While the American Society of Reproductive Medicine defines infertility as trying to conceive for one year without success for women under 35, and for six months for women over 35, individual circumstances can vary. If you have concerns about your fertility, it's essential to consult with a specialist who can tailor the timeline to your specific needs.

Myth 3: Infertility Impacts Only a Small Number of Women

Fact: Infertility is quite common, affecting about one in five women. Recognizing the prevalence of infertility can help those affected feel less isolated and more empowered to seek the help they need.


Myth 4: I Have a Child, So I Won’t Have Any Problems with Fertility

Fact: Secondary infertility can occur, even if you've had a child before. Factors such as age, complications from prior pregnancies, weight gain, and male factors—whether with the same or a different partner—can contribute to secondary infertility. It's crucial to seek evaluation if you encounter difficulties conceiving again.


Myth 5: Using Birth Control Can Cause Infertility

Fact: Birth control does not cause infertility and is often used in various treatment plans. Typically, menstrual cycles return within one to two months after discontinuing birth control. If your cycle hasn’t returned after three months, it's advisable to see your provider to explore other potential issues.


Myth 6: Irregular Cycles Automatically Mean I Am Infertile

Fact: Irregular cycles do not necessarily indicate infertility. Stress, exercise, hormonal imbalances, and other factors can cause irregular cycles. Identifying the underlying cause with your provider is essential for determining the appropriate treatment.


Myth 7: Certain Positions During Intercourse Can Determine the Sex of the Baby

Fact: The only definitive way to choose the sex of your baby before implantation is through IVF with pre-implantation genetic testing. There is no scientific evidence to support the idea that intercourse positions can influence the likelihood of having a boy or girl.


Myth 8: I Shouldn't Seek Infertility Treatment Because I Can't Afford IVF

Fact: There are many affordable treatment options available beyond IVF, such as ovulation induction medications and intrauterine inseminations (IUI). Additionally, some insurance plans offer fertility coverage, so it’s worth checking your plan for details.


Myth 9: My Health Has No Impact on My Fertility

Fact: Health plays a significant role in fertility. Factors such as age, smoking, diabetes, thyroid issues, and overall health can impact infertility and its treatment. It's important to consider your entire health profile when addressing fertility issues.


Infertility is a complex issue with many myths and misconceptions. At Caperton Fertility Institute, we provide personalized treatment plans and compassionate care to help you on your fertility journey. If you have any questions or need further information, please don't hesitate to reach out. We are here to support you every step of the way.


For more information or to schedule a consultation, contact us today. Together, we can navigate your path to parenthood.

Understanding Fibroids and Fertility

By Dr. Lee Caperton • October 7, 2025
Uterine fibroids are a common diagnosis among women of reproductive age. While many fibroids are harmless and cause no symptoms, others can interfere with fertility and pregnancy. At Caperton Fertility Institute , we help patients understand how fibroids may affect reproductive health and provide personalized treatment options to optimize fertility outcomes. What Are Uterine Fibroids? Fibroids, also known as leiomyomas , are benign (non-cancerous) growths that develop in or on the uterus. They can vary greatly in size, number, and location. Depending on where they form, fibroids are classified into several types: Submucosal Fibroids: Grow into the uterine cavity Intramural Fibroids: Develop within the uterine wall Subserosal Fibroids: Form on the outer surface of the uterus Pedunculated Fibroids: Attached by a stalk extending from the uterus How Fibroids Can Affect Fertility Not all fibroids impact fertility. However, certain types and locations are more likely to interfere with conception, implantation, or pregnancy progression. Submucosal Fibroids: These are most likely to affect fertility because they distort the uterine cavity, which can prevent implantation or increase the risk of miscarriage. Intramural Fibroids: When large, these fibroids can change the shape of the uterus and affect blood flow, potentially reducing the chances of successful embryo implantation. Tubal Blockage: Fibroids located near the fallopian tubes can obstruct sperm or egg movement, preventing fertilization. Cervical Fibroids: Although rare, fibroids near the cervix can hinder sperm entry into the uterus. Common Symptoms of Fibroids Fibroid symptoms vary widely — some people experience significant discomfort, while others have no symptoms at all. Common signs include: Heavy or prolonged menstrual bleeding Pelvic pain or pressure Pain during intercourse Frequent urination or constipation Recurrent pregnancy loss or difficulty conceiving For many patients, fibroids are first discovered during a fertility evaluation or routine pelvic exam . Diagnosis and Treatment Options At Caperton Fertility Institute , we use advanced diagnostic imaging such as ultrasound and MRI to assess fibroid size, number, and location. Once diagnosed, treatment is tailored to your fertility goals and overall health. Treatment options include: Medical Management: Hormonal therapies to reduce symptoms and fibroid growth. Surgical Options: Myomectomy to remove fibroids while preserving the uterus. Minimally Invasive Procedures: Hysteroscopic or laparoscopic surgery for faster recovery and minimal scarring. Our approach is designed to preserve fertility whenever possible while alleviating symptoms and improving uterine health. Hope After a Fibroid Diagnosis A fibroid diagnosis doesn’t mean you can’t conceive. Many patients with fibroids go on to achieve healthy pregnancies — especially with proper evaluation and treatment. At Caperton Fertility Institute , our experienced fertility specialists in Albuquerque, NM , and El Paso, TX , provide compassionate, individualized care for every patient. We’ll guide you through diagnosis, treatment, and the next steps toward achieving your dream of parenthood. ✨ If you suspect fibroids may be affecting your fertility, schedule a consultation today. Let’s take the next step together toward your fertility goals.

Honoring Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Month 🤍

By Dr. Marika Raff • October 7, 2025
Every loss is unique. Every story matters. Every life is remembered.
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Egg Donor FAQ

By Dr. Kelly Caperton • September 19, 2025
1. What is egg donation? Egg donation is the process by which a healthy woman donates her eggs to help another individual or couple conceive a child. These eggs may be fertilized through in vitro fertilization (IVF) and implanted into a recipient’s uterus or frozen for future use. 2. Who can become an egg donor? At Caperton Fertility Institute, we welcome egg donors who meet the following criteria: Ages 19–30 Physically and emotionally healthy Non-smoker, non-drug user Regular menstrual cycles No history of genetic or reproductive disorders Willing to undergo medical and psychological screening Able to commit to the time and responsibilities of the donation process 3. Why do people need egg donors? Egg donors help individuals and couples who are unable to conceive using their own eggs due to: Advanced maternal age Genetic conditions Medical treatments like chemotherapy LGBTQ+ family-building Unexplained infertility 4. Is egg donation safe? Yes. Egg donation is a common and generally safe medical process. It involves hormone injections to stimulate the ovaries and a minor outpatient procedure to retrieve the eggs. Risks are low but can include mild discomfort, bloating, or temporary side effects from medication. Serious complications are rare. 5. Will donating affect my fertility? No, egg donation does not impact your long-term fertility. Women are born with thousands of eggs, and donation uses only a small number that would naturally be lost in a normal cycle. 6. Is egg donation painful? Most donors report mild discomfort similar to menstrual cramps. The egg retrieval procedure is done under light sedation, so you won’t feel pain during the process. Recovery typically takes 1–2 days. 7. Will I be compensated? Yes. Caperton Fertility Institute offers generous, ethically guided compensation for your time, effort, and commitment. The amount is discussed during your initial consultation and complies with all legal and medical guidelines. 8. How long is the egg donation process? The process generally takes 6–10 weeks from initial screening to egg retrieval. It includes: Application and screening Medical and psychological evaluations Legal review Hormonal stimulation (approx. 10–14 days) Egg retrieval procedure 9. Can I still work or go to school during the donation process? Yes. Most of the process can be scheduled around your routine. However, you'll need to attend several clinic appointments and take medications on a strict schedule. During the last week, you'll need to reduce physical activity. 10. Will my identity be kept confidential? Absolutely. Donor confidentiality is strictly maintained. You can choose to remain anonymous, open, or semi-open, depending on your preferences and the recipient’s needs. 11. How do I get started? To begin the egg donor application process: Visit our Portal Fill out a questionnaire Our donor coordinator will contact you for next steps 12. Can I donate more than once? Yes, eligible donors can donate up to six times, as recommended by the American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM). Each cycle is spaced out for your health and safety.
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